How can I get over my anger over all of this?

Basically, in middle school a bunch of people conspired to accuse me of threats because they didn't like me. This was immediately after the Virginia Tech shootings when everyone was really paranoid, and I shared several superficial traits with the shooter (wrote horror stories, was severely depressed and was asocial), as well as the school administration already disliking me because I had come out of the closet as a and many staff and teachers in teh school, as well as students, were phobic (I was actually told by the principle she wouldn't prevent peopel from bullying me because she didn't support my "lifestyle"). I was put in a school for children with severe behavioral problems, even though I was harmless, simply because of this. No other school would take me because of the record that I got from the accusation. I managed to get out, but only after my family became nearly broke in lawyer's expenses to expunge the record. The financial problems drove my mom to alcohol and turned my happy home into hell. Even when I made it to a regular high school, since I had skipped the 8th grade and gotten no education for the 9th gradeof this, if not on disability. Frankly, I'm not upset about THAT. I'm an anarchocommunist, and that wo in that alternative school I was very unprepared and also from the trauma of the alternative schiool I developed a severe school phobia. I dropped out of high school and the very thought of a school structure makes me nauseous and last time I tried to go to a cl I vomited from the anxiety. Fortunately, I guess something good came out of all this suffering because I did become a anarchocommunist when I studied it independently in the spare time that came from dropping out of high school, and being in a shitty, low-paying job can actually help me aid in the cl struggle since I would be able to better build working cl power if I'm actually a member of the working cl. So, I don't really mind that I'm going to be in a bad job. However, I am angry at all teh suffering I had to go through. I am angry at all the pain my family had to go through. How can I get over this anger, since it does cause me problems?